As we strive to grow in our faith, it is important to cultivate godly character traits in our children (and ourselves) that reflect the heart of Christ. As Christians, we are called to be people of good character. Our character is the sum of our habits, attitudes, and behaviors that shape who we are. It is the outward expression of the inner workings of our hearts. But as a parent, it can feel overwhelming to figure out how to teach Godly character to our kids.
Godly character is essential because it reflects the qualities of God and helps our children to become responsible, respectful, and compassionate as they grow to be young adults.
When we model godly character, we teach our children to love God and others. They learn to be honest, truthful, and have integrity. They will treat others with kindness and forgiveness. These are all skills that will serve them throughout their lives, and we need to start them young to develop Godly character. Developing Godly character also helps our children to navigate the challenges and temptations of life with wisdom, discernment, and self-control. By instilling these values in your children, you will prepare them to be leaders in their communities and to make a positive impact in the world. Ultimately, developing godly character helps our children to become the best version of themselves and to fulfill their God-given purpose in life.
In my years writing here on the Character Corner, many moms have asked how to develop Godly character traits in their children. It’s been my passion to teach these principles to Moms and hear the stories of how God is working in their families as they see these traits develop! Below you will find a list of character traits to help you process as you come up with a plan. You can also download this character traits PDF plus 2 other character charts here for FREE!
The following list of 48 traits mentioned is not exhaustive, but it is a good starting point for anyone looking to develop their child’s character. Each of these traits has a corresponding reference from the Bible, which shows that character development is an important aspect of the Christian faith.
The list of character traits I’ve listed below are based on scripture. You might find yourself asking, “What does the Bible say about character development?” I’ll just say… a lot! Because of this, I’ve compiled a list of 48 godly character traits, and there are still more within the pages of God’s Word!
This is one of the most common questions I am asked! I often tell moms to begin with obedience. One of the most important character traits for Christians is obedience. This involves doing what we are told with a happy, submissive spirit (Hebrews 13:17). It’s true obedience is not always easy, but it is essential if we want to live a life that pleases God.
How can I improve my character as a Christian?
Improving your own character as a Christian is an ongoing process that requires self-reflection, dedication, and a willingness to grow. And you need to constantly refine and reflect on your own display of Godly character so you can be a model to your children.
By regularly reading and studying God’s Word, praying, attending church, and seeking guidance from spiritual mentors, you can deepen your relationship with God and develop a stronger sense of morality and integrity.
Just remember, no one is perfect and we all make mistakes. However, by consistently striving to live according to God’s teachings and treating others with kindness and compassion, you can continue to improve your own character and show your children how to live a life of Godly Character.
