For the past 35 years, I have spoken at homeschool conferences and support groups. Being at those conferences gave me the opportunity to meet and speak with hundreds of homeschooling moms over the years. I heard about many homeschool struggles, the joys of homeschooling, questions, and fears. I have also learned many reasons homeschool moms cry.
After 31 years of homeschooling, I can relate to those tears! I loved homeschooling, but it wasn’t always easy. Some days were filled with sunshine and smiles; others were frustrating and overwhelming.
I’ve often seen homeschooling moms cry–during my workshops or in one-on-one conversations. Through these in-person experiences, and from my own experience, I’ve found some common reasons behind their tears.
4 Reasons Homeschool Moms Cry
Homeschool Moms Cry Because They are Tired
Sometimes the exhaustion of keeping up with the baby, toddlers, homeschooling, and housework seems like too much. We become overwhelmed, and fatigued, often resulting in a meltdown. I know because I have been there!
Nights of being up with a sick fussy baby, followed by a day of needy toddlers make for a rough day. Sometimes we just need to take a break!
When you are too tired to handle your normal daily routines, only do what is necessary that day!
- Give the kids lots of reading time
- Do some fun things with them that don’t require much energy or thought
- Use educational videos to give you some quiet time
- Take a nap
Is it hard to be a homeschool mom?
If you don’t get the rest you need, you are going to face homeschool burnout. When you allow yourself to burn out, you are not able to accomplish what God has called you to do with and for your family.
Don’t fall into the trap of staying up late to get things finished, and getting up early to get things done before the kids are up. You may function okay for a while, but eventually, the lack of sleep is going to cause health issues.
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Our bodies are not indestructible, and there is only so far we can push them before they start to fail. Therefore it is important to prioritize getting enough sleep. Be sure you prioritize self-care and get the rest that your body needs. Your goal should be to Honor God With Your Health.
Homeschool Moms Cry When They Are Too Busy
It is very easy to let busyness overwhelm us as homeschooling moms!
On top of teaching academics, training our kids, and caring for our homes, there are many outside activities that we can get involved in. While many of those activities are good things, we must choose wisely how many extras we want to get involved in, and which ones.
We had a rule with our boys that they had to choose one sport to be involved in during the school year because more than that quickly became too time-consuming and overwhelming for everyone.
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Without being intentional in our planning we can be overwhelmed with busyness! Having every hour over-booked stresses each member of the family. It is possible to be too busy!
Here are 15 Warning Signs You’re Too Busy As A Mom.
Remember that you are in charge of your school schedule.
- If you are in the midst of fatigue-filled days due to a new baby, or other circumstances, consider doing only the basics academically.
- Also, consider a four-day school week. That extra day to rest and catch up on things can make a huge difference in how you feel.
- Above all, listen to your body!
Being a tired and busy homeschool mom can make you cry, so do whatever is needed to get the rest that your body needs!
How do you overcome homeschool burnout?
If you are a homeschooling mom who finds herself in tears from exhaustion, remember that you’re not alone. Fatigue is real, and it’s good to recognize and admit when you are tired. You don’t have to “do everything” or do it all on your own.
- Give yourself the grace you need
- Make rest a priority
- Seek support and help as needed.
- Cut back to the basics only
- Get support from your homeschool community
- Find ways to recharge and refill your tank
Your love and dedication to your kids make a difference, so don’t give up. Keep your eyes on the goal, and remember that you are training and discipling your kids, as you teach them and point them to God. What you’re doing counts for eternity.
Take a look at the rest of the reasons homeschool moms cry
- Anger In Your Homeschool
- Homeschooling a Difficult Child
- Falling Into the Homeschool Comparison Trap
