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Tips For Affording a Large Family

We have heard it many, many times: “You have EIGHT kids?! How do you afford it?”  Others add comments about how they can’t afford the 2 or 3 they have.  I’m going to share 8 tips for affording a large family that were helpful to us, as well as how we learned to trust God to provide.

Practical tips for affording a large famiy,. Remember that God is faithful to provide

My husband and I decided when we had our first little one, that I would stay home to care for her, and any children that came after.

We didn’t have much at the time, but we knew we had a God who promised to supply our needs, and we could trust Him. 

I will say there were many times when things were tight and we had to scrimp, but we always had our needs met!

God does promise to provide, but He also expects us to be good stewards of the money He has given us. We need to be wise and careful in how we use it.

Tips For Affording A Large Family

1. Be in agreement with your spouse.

It’s very important to sit down with your spouse, and set up a budget that you can both agree on.

A married couple is supposed to be a team, and it won’t work if one of you is off doing your own thing financially.

Once you agree on the budget, you both need to follow it.

2. Always tithe.

No matter HOW tight the budget is, this is a Bible principle that we need to obey. If you get into the habit of tithing, you don’t even really think about it. And God promises to bless you when you are faithful in tithing. (Malachi 3:10)

3. Don’t go into debt!

The biggest thing that gets families into debt is the use of credit cards.

We agreed to have a credit card for certain things like booking a motel, or emergency car repairs. However, we agreed that we would ALWAYS, ALWAYS pay the bill in full the next month, so we never incur any finance charges.

If you don’t have the self-discipline for this, it’s better to get rid of the cards, and use a cash envelope system.

4. Plan ahead and save regularly for big ticket items you are going to need, or want.

For example, if you know your washer is nearing the end, start saving for a new one. When you reach the goal and can buy the items you’ve saved for, you really appreciate them more.

5. Don’t overspend on gifts.

As Christians we aren’t supposed to be materialistic, and if we don’t start buying our kids lots of stuff, they won’t expect it. Instead, they will appreciate it more when they do get things.

Decide on a reasonable amount that you are going to spend for birthdays and Christmas, then stick to that amount.

When our kids were young, I got most of their toys from garage sales. You can find many nice toys, almost like new, at garage sales for a fraction of the original cost. Second hand shops are great too.

The same thing goes for kids clothes. They outgrow them so fast that you can buy them used, but like new, and save a lot of money.

6. Make a menu, and stick to it.

Write a grocery list to include what is needed for the menu, and buy only what is on the list.

When shopping without a list you automatically end up spending more, as you pick up an extra thing here and there.

Also, try to shop where prices are lowest. For many years when the kids were young, my husband went to Aldi and bought almost all of our groceries there.

We were able to spend a surprisingly small amount on groceries, compared to what most families spend.

Another things that helped us save on groceries: we never bought junk food.  We didn’t buy sugary cereals, chips, or pop when the kids were young. That alone cut quite a bit off our grocery bill.

I would bake once a week, and that was a treat we all looked forward to.

7. Combine trips, and shop online.

With a big family, going to the store for frequent, leisurely shopping trips is impossible, not to mention that it wastes time and money. Before going out on errands, make a list of all the places you need to go, the things to look for or buy, and do it all at once.

When you focus like this, you can get a lot done in a short time, AND you don’t just randomly go spend money on things. 

Buying things online is also a money and time saver.

8. Learn to pray and trust God.

I can look back at so many times when we had to pray and trust that God would supply certain needs. Over time we learned to leave the need with Him, sit back, and watch to see what He would do.

What are some of your tips for affording a large family? Share them in the comments!

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  1. Ahaa, its pleasant discussion on the topic of this piece of writing here at this webpage, I have read all that, so at this time me also commenting at this place.

  2. Hi there! Would you mind if I share your blog with my twitter group?
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  3. Katie, it sounds like you are doing a great job on saving and being frugal!

  4. Thanks for this! I specifically need to focus on the grocery shopping!
    I get asked this question all the time. If I feel I need to add specifics, I usually tell people… I cut my boys hair (5 of them!) and trim my daughters when needed. We will shop for a long time before buying a pair of shoes- we buy quality but not at full price, and only when a new pair is NEEDED. Many times if I see quite the bargain on the next size up for my younger kids, I buy it then! Most of our jackets and coats have been bought in brand new condition at a second hand shop. My children are not caught up in designer brands, and thankfully they view spending an enormous price on clothing as crazy! Not letting our kids get caught up in trends helps a lot- I can’t imagine them begging and just having to have ____. My boys attended football camp last summer. I thought they should have warm-ups and a sporty shirt. They were so thankful for going out and buying these! I washed them each day, and they wore it all week! On Wednesday they were asked by other children… “are you going to wear that all week?” They didn’t even care! Praise the Lord. Just these items mentioned can cost way more at full price for 2-3 kids than for 6!
    I appreciate how you balanced good stewardship and trusting God in your post! Thanks!!

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